So in the past weeks/month I have being telling myself how I do not want to meet anybody new anymore because of 6 degrees of separation. Apparently I never realize how small this world really is until this summer when the 6 degrees web became entangled. Sadly I'm the type who rather have a small circle of close friends that I could die for or die for me than a million who do not care and because my friends are very dear to me i can be selfish too which is sad.....Anyway let just say I failed in keeping to that promise and I met someone a few weeks ago...lets call him Mr. honest because that's what he is and pretty much with any topic. He is quite smart and intelligent so I have been learning some stuff some of which i agree with and others I do not so it looking like. Now we both comes from a very different background, point of views and things like that which triggers different view on different topic so watch out for more discussion topic this fall on here.
Arguably your first love is probably the most intense, but that does not mean that person will be your one true love.
I guess arguably your first love is your most intense, but that doesn't mean that person will be your One True Love. I think you can certainly fall in love more than once though each situation is different and unique and would never be the same as the previous person. Because the first love is intense I think there will always be a special place for your "first love" in your heart for quite a good amount of time.
Now I have rest my case and the floor is all yours. What do you guys think can you truly and only fall in love once?
My current 10
1. I'm fired up for the weekend
2. I had a blast at my vacation and I bless God for keeping my family closer than ever before
3. Getting ready for layering again...I love my blazers but so not looking forward to winter
4. A week from now my last semester as an undergrad starts
5. God is too faithful and His will and my desires are gradually unfolding
6. I feel so old been 10110 and miss been 10101
7. I don't know while i felt like writing in binary
8. Give us clean hands is currently on my ipod replay
9. Not looking forward to moving back to campus to move out in 3 months
10. I love my life and the people in it including my bloggers and followers
Being that i believe that loving someone is a decision, falling in love can definitely happen more than once.
ReplyDeletewell I love lots of people and one can fall in love with more than one person,maybe not at the same time but it can happen,except you caution yourself not to fall in love at all,falling in love is not really about the commitments but about how much of yourself you can sacrifice to the "others".
ReplyDeleteI love you too,muah.
I don't agree you only love one, Love as far as I am concerned is a nurtured effort not an automatic response. That is why people from different backgrounds can fall in love. You can always learn to love someone new if you want to, you might constantly compare the love you have or think your past love was somehow better, but you can definitely love again.
ReplyDeleteI believe you can love more than once and I don't believe that the first love will necessarily be the most intense. It might be, it might now
ReplyDeleteI truly believe we can fall in love uncountable times.
ReplyDeleteHuman beings are so different - and one can fall in love with whatever makes each person unique.
My first love was intense and childish because I still had my 'rose-tinted specs' on.
Another was intense and stressful - because he was an exciting bad-boy.
The love I have for my husband is more mature and doesn't cause pain.
"Arguably your first love is probably the most intense, but that does not mean that person will be your one true love. "
ReplyDeleteI kinda agree... truth is, it is possible to love more than once. I tell you. Have you met someone who treated you so bad and yet you love the person. After leaving that fellow, you met someone else who treats you like a king/queen, there is all tendency you are soon to forget the old (ex). Love is a willful commitment. It is never magical or unconscious. It may start with a spark but it does not linger with it...
Congrats on starting ur last sem of undergrad :) God will see u through.
- LDP
That paragraph before the current 10 made so much sense. We can def love more than once, and it doesn't mean one love is better than the other, just different as people are different.
ReplyDeleteYou say you're looking forward to winter? LOL...
blessings.....
ReplyDeleteInteresting write up. You only fall in love once? Nah, I don't buy that, that would limit us greatly. I think as human beings we are capable of great loves, each differ in degree and evolution. It is when we feel most motivated and inspired by beyond ourselves that we narrow it to a singular person however should that not work out the possibilities of love, loving opens up again.
I totally agree with @ilola,you can actually love more than once and sometimes even more intensely.
ReplyDeleteThank you guys for all the views love it.
ReplyDelete@LDP ...Amen and big thank you
@Myne...Abi don't mind me jare I just want to start layering blazers upon cardigans upon sweaters already but once the first snow hit ground I will start complaining...lol