tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31676540604407194752024-03-13T17:09:15.958-04:00Yellow Sisi Unspoken...The journey must continues...
(Life, School, work, Church, people, places, culture and what not)Ms. Yellow Sisi Unspokenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08882237190307123728noreply@blogger.comBlogger80125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3167654060440719475.post-91443497588090288682014-09-19T23:12:00.000-04:002014-09-20T00:12:16.937-04:00Once in a while<div style="text-align: center;">
Wooohoo, hello, hola, bonjour! I'm still here, same old Yellow Sisi minus the consistency. Hope everyone is doing fabulous!!</div>
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Every now and then I miss the days I use to read blog posts upon post and now there is just something about it. Every now and then I stop by this space because I missed it but I guess today is just another one of those days. Just checking in, love y'all!!</div>
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P.S For some reason I can't comment on blogs or even reply my comments :( Help? Anyone?<br />
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<a href="http://ladyngo.blogspot.com/2014/09/the-finer-things-in-life.html#comment-form">Ladyngo</a> if you read this please email me at ysunspoken@gmail.com, I still owe you something from <a href="http://yellowsisiunspoken.blogspot.com/2014/01/pay-it-forward-2014_22.html">Pay It Forward </a>and I can't reach you.<a href="https://www.blogger.com/"></a>Ms. Yellow Sisi Unspokenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08882237190307123728noreply@blogger.com24tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3167654060440719475.post-86680495505728895492014-05-05T01:59:00.004-04:002014-05-05T01:59:56.367-04:00Speak it, Believe it, & Run with it.Happy <strike>new </strike>month everyone!! It is absolutely amazing how the year 2014 is flying by so fast. My prayer is that God will continue to sustain us and our households.<br />
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As we embark into the second half of the year I just wanted to mention again how powerful our tongue is. If you have been following my blogs for a while you will know that faith and prophesy is one of my most favorite theme. There is a mighty power in our tongue and it is absolutely one of the greatest weapon we have in life. It could be a positive or negative weapon but it is unto us according to our desire. In the very short time I have live, I can say that I am a living testimony of words that came out of my mouth.<br />
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As we always say in my ministry "A close mouth is a close destiny!" The Angels are always around us to pick up every thing that comes out of our mouth and we are warned that we cannot say before an angel that the words we said were an error.<br />
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The word that we speak are seed we sow into our future, therefore we must be careful of what we sow now for the harvest is sure going to manifest itself. Positivity will always yield positive result and negativity will also yield negative result. It does not end at speaking it, we must also believe that what we have spoken will surely happen for us in its due time<br />
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Today in everything you lay your hand to do, prophesy positivity into it and watch it unfold. Speak it, Believe it, Run with it and you will surely see it Manifest.<br />
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Bless week!<br />
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YSUMs. Yellow Sisi Unspokenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08882237190307123728noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3167654060440719475.post-86231489732934965752014-04-24T02:03:00.000-04:002014-09-19T23:19:52.470-04:00In the Midst of it all......God is always faithful regardless of what happen and how things are going. In as much as I hate to give excuse this time for not blogging its been a tough 2014 so far. Several deaths in the family and its been hard to recover and even the moment you think you can start living normal again then comes another and then another. In the midst of it all I still give God all the glory because there is a season and a time for everything and He alone knows the time He will call His children to rest in His bosom.<br />
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I shall be back to normal blogging this weekend. Apologies to everyone who won the Pay it Forward in my last post. I shall be reaching out to you all soonest for your gifts. Thanks to those that emailed to check on me, you guys ROCK!! even though I did not reply a few of you, reading the emails certainly made my days and made me smile.<br />
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I disabled comment on this post but you all lovely folks will be able to comment in my future blog post.<br />
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YSUMs. Yellow Sisi Unspokenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08882237190307123728noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3167654060440719475.post-35906049623735028172014-01-22T23:43:00.000-05:002014-01-22T23:59:40.769-05:00Pay-It-Forward-2014<br style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: x-large;" />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large;">Can y'all tell that I am quiet excited to be back to this atmosphere? I am still trying to get a hang on commenting on every post I read but trust me I am catching up on my favorites blogs and its been great seeing what everyone is up to, all the kokoro gist and what not. I initially had a topic I wanted to post today but </span><a href="http://www.hattylolla.com/2014/01/what-nigerian-bloggers-should-do-in-2014.html" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: x-large;">@ilola</a><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large;"> said we must all come back in 2014 and </span><a href="http://www.janylbenylshares.com/2013/12/all-bloggers-stand-up.html" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: x-large;">Ms. JB</a><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large;"> said "</span><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large; line-height: 18px;">let's start a fire in blogsville come 2014" I YSU approve those messages!! </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large; line-height: 18px;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large; line-height: 18px;">Now on that note here is one to begin the year 2014 with and I hope y'all will participate and share the love...</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large; line-height: 17px;">Let's do more nice and loving things for each other in 2014, without any reason other than to make each other smile and to show that we think of each other. Here's to a more enjoyable, more friendly, and love-filled year.</span><br />
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Ms. Yellow Sisi Unspokenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08882237190307123728noreply@blogger.com16tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3167654060440719475.post-60964311443828648952014-01-03T02:43:00.000-05:002014-01-18T00:44:36.743-05:00Happy New Year!!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Happy New Year Blogsfam!! May this year bring you so much joy and all your heart desire.<br />
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Its 2014 and I am back, I sure miss reading, writing and commenting on blogs and its been so amazing to catch up on some blogs, the ones getting married, having babies, relocating and all the exciting news around. Thanks for everyone who message/looked for me during my hiatus you guys are super duper awesome.<br />
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Cheers to a beautiful 2014 ahead.<br />
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</span>Ms. Yellow Sisi Unspokenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08882237190307123728noreply@blogger.com18tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3167654060440719475.post-56035324678955533192013-02-06T02:53:00.000-05:002013-02-06T02:53:37.452-05:00Identify how you shape the worldHey hey hey! hiding in shame as I dust off some cobwebs. Happy 2013 everybody!! Hope the year is going great so far. I won't even bother to give excuse where I have been but God is faithful and I sure miss this place. So last time I said I was gonna share a testimony on here of which I still can't go in details of how it happened cause it is a full post of it own and since this is my first post in 2013 I wanted to do a series even as we start the new year so the story shall wait till later, but off course I wont keep you all waiting for too long. It finally got a full time job in TX where I have always wanted to move to for the past 6 years so yeah I've officially move out of the east coast until further notice aka wedding or higher promotion. God works in mysterious way and that story will be shared later.<br />
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In the mean time this series I've titled "Identifying how you shape the world" This topic was something I and a few friends were talking about two weeks ago and I decided to look and search deeper about it and share it with you lovely friends off course.<br />
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Now when we think about the entire universe there are about 7 billion people in the world and every each one of us are a part of the of at least 1 of the 7 areas that we impact our world and the question is Ar<b>e you just a part of this group or do you actually make an impact in the group that you belong to?</b><br />
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In all these areas we need believer/Christian to occupy and take charge however for some of them we Christian tend to run away from them (ex. Politic and Media). For way to long we have heard many believers/Christian say "oh no you can be in that field or career as a Christian." Who said so? As long as you are doing your work and the Glory of God is shinning through you what problems is there. We tend to complain "oh group XYZ is bad so I can't be there." Imagine how different it would be for one light to shine upon the 1000 darkness. When the light shines darkness comprehends not and it had no choice but to emulate the light as well. Imagine how different the world would be if there were more believers in the some areas were they are currently lacking. We do not necessarily need to make extra effort or get out of our way to be in any of this group but it is rather we stay just were God have place us, something that we love and enjoy. To some of us we grow into that group while to others had a passion for it as a child but beaten out of it by their parent, friends and love ones.<br />
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The list above is not in any particular order and I may not be posting the rest of this series in this order either. In the next 7 posts I will be elaborated more on each of these areas both in a natural sense and biblical way. I do pray by the end of this series if anyone that reads it had a doubt about the group they truly belongs to they will be more encourage to keep on keeping on with what it is that they love and enjoy doing.<br />
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Thank you all for stopping by my blog again :)<br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Hey lovelies!! MERRY CHRISTMAS! Hope you all had a very fabulous celebration. Mine was fabulous went to church and ate ate ate and enjoy the moments with family friends and well wishers. Christ is the only reason for the season and by his birth He brought a million Joy and peace upon mankind.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">This is a season to be joyful and celebrate with love ones. It is one thing to be happy and another to be joyful. Personally <span style="background-color: white; line-height: 18px;">I don't want just happiness I desire JOY, for joy is permanent while happiness is temporary, joy releases strength because Neh 8:10 in my bible tells me the joy of the Lord is my strength.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Happiness we can probably buy with money but after it worth has expired so does the happiness, but Joy commeth from the Lord and it is Everlasting. It is a gift from the Lord and they that desires shall receive it. </span></div>
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HEY Y'ALL, as always I am super excited for no apparent reason. So I have been playing the song back to back for about 2 months now and I have been working on a praise/prophetic dance for the song and I'm just anxiously waiting for an opportunity to present it at Church with the right month theme. Anyways enough talking....This song really blesses my heart everytime I listen to it and I just not help but to share it with you guys, hoping someone will stumble upon it and be bless by it.</div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">At six and seven I knew my siblings came because of love<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">At eight a friend claimed to be the best<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">At nine I realize love ones are not supposed to hurt you<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">At ten, I hated the word love and everything about it<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">At eleven the pain starts to heal and I forgot about it<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">At twelve I got my longest butterflies’ every time I see him<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">At thirteen these feelings still don’t change<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">At fourteen I thought I was lacking since every girl had lovers<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">At fifteen I literally found mine, except it was in my head<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">At sixteen I realized I just lied to myself<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">At seventeen I sat back and watch everything from afar<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">At eighteen he stole my heart and disvirgin my lips<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">At nineteen he realize I’m not the type of girl he thought</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">At twenty I may have been marketing myself wrong<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">At twenty one he told me I should stop acting as a child<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">This time my heart was too stubborn to give itself away <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Ms. Yellow Sisi Unspokenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08882237190307123728noreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3167654060440719475.post-72169073452270326372012-11-25T23:23:00.000-05:002012-11-25T23:23:06.510-05:00Clean out time!*Cough cough* * clear throat* *knock knock* *dust out cob-webs* where do I even start? how do I even apologize...Choi I can't believe its almost 2-4 months now since I did proper blogging. I have been lurking around to some blogs but never a chance to put up my own post. Thanks to everyone who have been keeping in touch offline and asking after me...Y'all are amazing!! <br />
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I hope you all had an awesome thanksgiving weekend. I did a lot of cooking but did not really eat as much as I have done in past thanksgiving. Its not all about the food, what are you thankful for? As for me I had millions reason to be very thankful and I shall be sharing lots of testimonies here in future post. Actually there is one I can't hold any longer. I GAINED WEIGHT!! 6 lbs. Yes a whole 6 pounds that's alot. For the past 7 years I've never gained a single pound I remained exactly the same weight no matter what I eat and how much to some extend that I really got tired of everyone saying "Do you eat?" or "you are so Skinny" For my height and weight I was almost at the underweight borderline, even at age 14 I weigh more than I do now (how is that even possible?) Anyway sha every year one of my resolution is always to gain 10 pounds but its always zero and this year I've got 6 so I'm ready for 2013. woo hoo!<br />
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Its officially August 11th...and I just got a year older. I can definitely say I have seen the Lord's doing in the very past 20 something years and it just keep getting more and more glorious each day...Will try to keep this as short cause I'm out to celebrateeeeee eh eh eh.<br />
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For my birthday I decided to let yall into my world a little bit by introducing a dear friend to you, she has tremendous similarities as your one and only YSU So here she is.........<br />
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She is ME...yes you read that right, me me me aka MZYSU...I have finally decided to reveal myself since I have grown past the stage of shyness..now you can actually match my posts to a face. (Yeah record the face pretty well because this post will go down soon...lol)<br />
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M.E aka MZYSU is an Edo babe by Origin...<br />
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<br />Ms. Yellow Sisi Unspokenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08882237190307123728noreply@blogger.com24tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3167654060440719475.post-7657260596416945452012-08-05T22:42:00.001-04:002012-08-05T22:42:42.084-04:00SpeechlessAugust! August! August!...Surely my favorite month of the year :) Happy New month everybody, better late than never abi?<br />
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So lately as I turn left, right, front and back every every <strike>little kids</strike> I grew up with are popping out babies and I'm just like still in shock because some of these young girls just graduated from high school or not even yet a graduate and it just breaks my heart because a lot of these girls don't even know much about what life is all about . Usually it don't bother me much but when I found out one of the <strike>little girl</strike> I grew up with just had a baby I was plain devastated. This girl lets call her Sammy is probably about 18 or 19 and just had a baby of which the <strike>boy</strike> does not even want the child or anything to do with her. Sammy growing up was one of the book smart kids that I knew, competing in spelling bees and all that Academic decathalon events across the nation. In a way I put 20% of the blame on Sammy and the other 80% on her parents.<br />
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Now the problem I have with alot of African parent that relocate to US is the fact that they all feel like they have to work 24/7 just so they can have things to show off which leads to their children doing all sort of unimaginable things without their parents knowledge. The other set of parents are the ones that think they have to me super strict on their children everything revolve about school work and no play. Sammy's parent were probably the most strict parents I have every met and this girl can not even dare go outside for fresh air without her parent's consent. At age 16/17 I believe she got enough of it and decided to do whatever she want. This lead to her parent beating her up one day and she ended up calling the police and she was taking away by the government and letter ended up in a shelter. To cut the long story short she ended up doing all sort of crazy things afterall she has never had the taste of fun/life outside her house so she was ready to do everything, wherever and whenever which later led to a baby. It really breaks my heart because she is this smart little girl I used to know and could have earn herself an amazing scholarship to university if she graduated high school. In her case I really do blame her parents because you just can't be so overprotective of your kids because once they get out of your sight they will venture out into something that you have always deprive them of.<br />
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The other set of parents I can't tolerate are the gold diggers who don't care about the happiness or the well being of their child except what is in for them. Another friend of mine just got engage a few weeks ago and getting married in next year's fall. She is about 20 and knowing her pretty well enough I just think she is way to young especially getting married to someone who is almost 30.They are totally at two different life stage and its like she is skipping a stage in her life. In most african home (At least the ones i know) at early 20's is when you really start to find out who you really are and what you really want. Jumping from parent's house to hobby's house so quickly, when do you get your alone time? The guy is a working young man and she is a college sophomore and in my head I was just thinking when I was 20 the last thing my parent will agree to would be me getting married without even finishing a first degree. For me if my daughter really loves the man and the man claims he loves her then I would have said wait 2 years. Afterall if it is God's will then those 2 years to finish her education will not be a problem.<br />
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16-20 is too young especially when its not a mistake.I may just be too much into the "finding myself/exploring who I'm" first before taking on the responsibility of becoming a wife and a mother. Many people I know disagree with me about these early marriage and baby outside of marriage/without a father stuff so I shall rest my own case here. This post is more for my rant but of course I love hearing your lovely comments and stand.<br />
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P.S In my next post I shall have a few surprises for y'all and probably a giveaway too. I shall also be answering any/all question so if you have ever wanted to ask me anything you've got a chance to ask me. YSUnspoken@gmail.com is my email and I shall answer them in a future post.<br />
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P.P.S. Dancing Alanta, Azonto and Kukere all at ones just because its August and the best people are born in August for sure. Early birthday shout out to <a href="http://didis-view.blogspot.com/">Didi</a> and every other blogger or follower born in August :)<br />
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P.P.P.S Hillsong Live is going to be in town in a few weeks and I so can't wait for this, I'm sure <a href="http://inthemidstofher.blogspot.com/">inthemidstofher</a> knows how this feels lol :)<br /><br />
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How are you lovely blogger and readers doing? Hope the summer is going fabulous especially for everyone who was in school throughout the year. On my end everything have been going fabulous and looking back now I see that I have come very far in the last few months.<br />
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If you have been following my blog for a long time you would notice that my blogging trend dropped in a way. Rewinding back to march I had a terrible terrible emotional breakdown that changed the way I was approaching things in life and view about myself and what not. For some people who can read in between the line I hinted <a href="http://yellowsisiunspoken.blogspot.com/2012/04/in-life.html">here</a> and <a href="http://yellowsisiunspoken.blogspot.com/2012/04/little-thought.html">here</a> and then like 10 draft post that I never publish just because I did not want to be overly negative on here or have a pity party. It all started with losing a friend and then a million other things follow one by one after the other. Now when I love, I love with my whole heart and therefore when I'm broken the heart is broken into a million pieces and therefore every other little damage makes the matter worst...Imagine this was just for a close friend what will happen if this one was hubby eh? lol. Anyway sha I will spare all the negative parts but it Got to a point when I would open my bible and the tears just roll down non-stop, any little thing will just make me cry a river, and even praying or listening to God speak was just a hassle or pointless. (hence another reasons I posted less) <br />
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I don't even know how but somewhere somehow just about last month my joy came back all again with a million things happening at ones and all unexpected open doors in different areas. The most amazing one was that my Sophomore year my faculty advisor told me I should switch my major otherwise I might not make it through if I continued at the rate I was at the time. Mind you this was a Nigerian professor on campus that I saw as my father on campus. Somehow somewhere God never put me to shame because I made it through 4.5 yrs as an EE major and had the privilege to sit on the podium along with 13 other students been honored during the 2900+ graduating student's ceremony. Seeing my parents, pastors and the rest of the family smile on that day lifted my soul and reminded me that I can do all things through Christ who strengthen me. Sadly the person who made me become an engineer did not live to witness this day but I know he would have been very proud of me. To top it off I got a Graduate Internship in Florida with all housing, and relocation expenses paid for. God knew that I really needed some alone time in a place far far away where I know no soul. Its been a few weeks now and I can say sometimes I miss home and not having my friends around to hang out with but I am really learning more about myself and growing.<br />
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Anyway sha enough of my story, all I have learned in this past months is when it comes to a situation where you cannot even get yourself to ask for God's help, tell someone to help. My mom was my helper all along. She is a fire fire woman and you don't mess with her and her prayers, She was on her knees on my behalf everyday and I have seen God works miraculous works through her many many times and He did not fail this time :)<br />
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I'd like to say every breakdown is an opportunity to rise and shine again to the highest height. This post is dedicated to anyone going through one thing or the other that they think they can't get up again. Even when we fall to our lowest level He still lifts us up and reminds us that we are not alone in this. I was not going to post this today but decided to share hoping at an individual will read this. <br />
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<strong>A word for you - </strong>“It is the Lord who goes before you. He will be with you; he will not fail you or forsake you. Do not fear or be dismayed. ” -<strong>Deuteronomy 31:8</strong><br />
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Now let's get straight to business, Shall we? I'd say we shall...<br />
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Rules...<br />
I. Post the rules.<br />
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1. I love life and living every bit of it.<br />
2 My greatest motivators are people who tell me I can't do something and so I fight to prove them wrong.<br />
3. I dislike the phrase "Good luck" with a passion.<br />
4. I can't eat banana by itself EVER. (it must be with groundnut, rice or other things).<br />
5. I'm the only yellow sisi in my family to the point my little brother at age 5/6 always ask/thought I was his cousin because my aunt is also light.<br />
6. My happiest moments is seeing people happy or satisfied with something that cost me nothing to do for them.<br />
7. If you want to buy me a present or bribe me to do something, buy me a pair of 5" pump and we are good to go...any color but black will do haha.<br />
8. I want to become a Sale Engineer and Travel the world before I hit 35.<br />
9. I will rather eat fish all day than any other meat.<br />
10. My name means joy and laughter so I'm always smilling (I've got in
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2. If u were an animal in the wild,what animal would u be and why??<b> <span style="color: blue;">A lion because its the greatest of all and plus I am a leo heh</span><span style="background-color: white; color: blue;"></span><span style="color: blue;">e </span></b><br />
3. Do you agree when i say religion is doing m<span style="background-color: white;"></span>ore harm than good?? <b><span style="color: blue;">If we are talking about the true definition of religion then yes I agree.</span></b><br />
4. What`s your favorite song?? <b><span style="color: blue;">I don't have one o..I get bored by repetition very easily but at the moment my jam is comforter by cece winans (the words are just so powerful)</span></b><br />
5. Do you think non-christians are going to hell?? <b><span style="color: blue;">Let's God be the judge of that because been a Christian does not guarantee heaven either.</span></b><br />
6. Do you Forgive Easily ?? <b><span style="color: blue;">If the person apologizes then yes within a blink, if not then probably after a day or two will do</span></b><br />
7. If you have to go to the moon and must take just 1 thing with you. what would it be?? <b><span style="color: blue;">My best friend ( he's a living "thing" jor)</span></b><br />
8. Would u agree when i say God needs the devil just to create a balance?? <span style="color: blue;"><b>I think I am allow to pass this one</b></span><br />
9. Do you Love Gadgets?? <b><span style="color: blue;">YES YES YES</span></b><br />
10. What`s you favorite color?? <b style="color: blue;">Teal, turquoise, Royal blue, purple and mustard yellow :)</b><br />
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<li>Would you describe yourself as fashion-conscious? <b><span style="color: blue;">YES YES...sadly my city is not the most fashionable one so there are some things I can't really pull off without been stared at.</span></b></li>
<li>Name one song you can never forget and why <b><span style="color: blue;">Chinwe Ike by Resonance, the sound is just too beautiful and meaningful and plus I love Esther's voice so can't forget it.</span></b></li>
<li>What physical feature would you like to change?<span style="color: blue;"><b> </b><b>Nothing because i'm fearfully, wonderfully, gloriously, beautifully, and preciously made :)</b></span></li>
<li>Three words that other people use to describe you <span style="color: blue;"><b>Quiet, playful and selfless </b></span></li>
<li>Three words that you use to describe yourself <span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: blue;"><b>Full of life (haha free me o those are 3 words)</b></span></span></li>
<li>Pen (Biro) or pencil? Which do you prefer, and why? <span style="color: blue;"><b>A science/math major can't do without a pencil (at least for me)</b></span></li>
<li>Do you have a favorite fragrance (perfume, body spray, etc). If yes, what is it called? <span style="color: blue;"><b>Nope but I absolutely love curve crush perfect balance</b></span></li>
<li>What are your pet peeves (Name three at most) <b><span style="color: blue;">lateness/slowness, (I know exactly how long it takes me to do something including the error percentage timing so anything more than that becomes a problem</span></b></li>
<li>Do you like children? Why or why not? <b><span style="color: blue;">Yes because they are just a bundle of joy and brings out the childishness in me which i love as well</span></b></li>
<li>What's the name of the last book you read? <span style="color: blue;"><b>Radar System Analysis (i just finished exams lol)</b></span></li>
<li>What's the name of your favorite author? <span style="color: blue;"><b>James Patterson (This is from early/late teen since i don't read much anymore since uni) </b></span> </li>
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So since pretty much everyone have done this post I will not be tagging any particular person(s) however I still got 11 questions so feel free to answer any or all in the comment section :) <br />
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1. What country and state are you from?<br />
2. What is your most precious item and why?<br />
3. Eat out or cook in? <br />
4. What is your greatest memory, (it can be good or bad)<br />
5. Name two reason you choose the career path you are at now?<br />
6. Name one guilty pleasure<br />
7. If you were force to own a pet what would it be and why?<br />
8. What is your favorite foreign desert?<br />
9.Why did you start blogging and what keeps you here?<br />
10. Mention one thing readers don't know about you from reading your blog <br />
11. Head or tail?<br />
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Have a lovely weekend everyone :)<br />
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Cheers<br />
YSU<br />
<br />Ms. Yellow Sisi Unspokenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08882237190307123728noreply@blogger.com17tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3167654060440719475.post-71389006360483073702012-05-01T17:48:00.001-04:002012-05-01T17:49:59.679-04:00Sleep over the thoughts....<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 'Allo 'Allo 'Allo Everybody (You all just need to hear me say that in YSU voice it sounds better lol). But anyway hope everybody dey fine sha?</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">And then I saw this quick note too...</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>What's happening with me?</b></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">I've been speaking less and listening more for directions...A little Blurry but with each and everyday the picture just keep getting brighter and brighter and I praise God daily for that.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">YSU</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">P.S...I dislike the new blogger template which is why every time I want to post I log on and close right out, hopefully I get use to it. </span><br />
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<b>...you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people belonging to God...</b></div>
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<br />Ms. Yellow Sisi Unspokenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08882237190307123728noreply@blogger.com20tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3167654060440719475.post-28389999321496001092012-04-11T17:19:00.001-04:002012-04-11T17:19:19.599-04:00In life.......There are lessons learned and some never learned no matter how many times that same act is repeated.<br />
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Lesson learned 1:<br />
When you love someone never let them go .<br />
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Put man first = A giant hole in the heart when they are gone.<br />
Put God first = He will always be there<br />
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THE END.Ms. Yellow Sisi Unspokenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08882237190307123728noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3167654060440719475.post-44561848294637069812012-04-04T23:25:00.004-04:002012-04-05T11:13:02.974-04:00Just some thoughtsHallo everyone, hope you guys dey fine? So today I decided to do a blog post but apparently my brain went blank and I had so many exciting thoughts that I wanted to share ...anyways since I don't have much today, I shall right about the Best Friend.<br />
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I have got this "Best Friend" take note of the quote in the title. So let's call him Ayo because it's means joy and that describes our moments. Ayo and I have been best friends for quite a long time now...stop there, before you start judging me I do believe that guys and girls can't be best friends, this I have learned with 3 different experiences/friendship.<br />
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Anyway boy and I got really close and we share any and every feelings and thought on things with each other. For a long time it's been great until a while back when I began to feel belittled. He's like the smartest guys I have ever met on planet earth and surely I can say that I have learned a lot with Ayo around. <br />
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Going back to feeling belittled. Ayo always have his ways with words and no matter how much defense you put up, he always wins the case and if you think he is wrong and want an apology it is definitely a waste of time and effort fighting for it. So once these feelings began to constantly creep in, I get angry over any little situation and feel so bitter inside.<br />
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I have tried to talk about this with him but the message is just not passing across with all the anger inside. When it comes to the things of the heart I could be a very bad communicator and just keep everything in until I explode like now and in the past weeks. At times I feel like walking away but no matter what I can't get myself to do that because we have grown too much to each other. Sometimes I'm hurt because he tells me I have changed or act as if he really piss me off. <br />
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I don't know If i'm asking for your thoughts on this or I'm just venting and ranting, but one thing for sure is that Ayo is the only one who knows about my blog and sometimes visit so I'm really hoping he gets to see this. :(<br />
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On another note I finally traveled for the first time this year and I went to National Society of Black Engineers (NSBE) convention in Pittsburgh PA....the convention itself was amazing as usual. With thousands of black engineers from all over the country, I kinda felt so very proud hearing everyone's accomplishment and I literally jumped out of my seat when it was announce that Uniben won the NSBE International Consulting Design Olympiad of the year. I was just like Edo folks don't carry last...lol. One thing for sure though is I refuse to return to that city in my lifetime. I thought my town was boring and dry but Pittsburgh is 200 times worst.<br />
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Have a good one guys and Happy Easter celebration. If not for Christ I would have been no one.<br />
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xoxo<br />
YSUMs. Yellow Sisi Unspokenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08882237190307123728noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3167654060440719475.post-36341032354246228302012-03-21T22:31:00.000-04:002012-03-21T22:31:15.467-04:00SHE'S HERE!!!!She is HERE, SHE IS HERE...She is FINALLY FINALLY HERE. Its been years and I've been waiting for her to get here. Seven months ago I finally knew she was on her way. I was so excited you don't even know. I had a name for her before I even knew she was coming and started stocking up her mini wardrobe every time I go shopping. I must admit she is one of the most gorgeous creature. So are you ready to see my little cutie? Ding ding ding, are you ready to see her???<br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRePLPMXizFqp_91KwWRJ7o2SBqMLH_s_LN3H9jo16nldTqQj-TZRzAWF2ww2bWOq-XVeMItzUnvtEL_cVm8gDMaeH85NxAKkcKYEk7t0Qa5zEhidSaG0uEuI4Pue84onKwLeOqooqsdk/s1600/420513_258118340940289_100002263740018_556014_600721751_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRePLPMXizFqp_91KwWRJ7o2SBqMLH_s_LN3H9jo16nldTqQj-TZRzAWF2ww2bWOq-XVeMItzUnvtEL_cVm8gDMaeH85NxAKkcKYEk7t0Qa5zEhidSaG0uEuI4Pue84onKwLeOqooqsdk/s400/420513_258118340940289_100002263740018_556014_600721751_n.jpg" width="400" /></a></div>Yup that's her, m<span class="commentBody" data-jsid="text">y very amiable and beautiful diva </span>little Ms. Melody at 4 days old. She is oh so adorable, gorgeous, beautiful and all the other yet invented words for a beauty like her. <br />
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Ok Ok before all the Congratulation starts....This is my little cousin from my favorite aunt. 80% of the person that I'm today is from the inspiration that I got from my aunt. I grew up with her and she thought me all the little stuff I needed to know. I remember my very first Liturgical dance with her at the age of 6/7. Thank God for her I have grown to love dancing for the Lord and still doing it till this day. Growing up she was just a teen so she treated me as a little sister and favorite baby girl. With all the love I could not wait for her to have a baby girl so I could do the same. Been her best maid in 2008, I kept telling her I wanted a baby girl first but God had a different plan so I had to wait a bit longer. <br />
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Once she told me she was Pregnant and it was a girl, the first name that came up was Melody. Mind you Melody was suppose to be one of my baby girl's name but I could not help it but call her dad and amazingly on her birth certificate that became her middle name. I have been shopping non-stop for this baby and I can't wait to spoil her more than my aunt did to me. Okay okay let me stop with all these excitement lol.<br />
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Now that I have told you guys the news, let move on to today's post. "WAITING FOR THE LORD'S TIME."<br />
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So the aunt I mentioned above met her husband about 8-9 years before there wedding. Guy finally made his intention known a year and a half later and once my aunt gave the news to the family the answer she got was a NO. Apparently blood type is a big deal in Nigeria, so because they were both AS my grandparents, uncle, aunts, gbo gbo everybody said no even the pastor. Everybody kept saying they will have SS kids, but my aunt insisted he was the one. 7 years went by and when my grandparent realize she was not shaking they finally approved and they got married.<br />
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Now happily married and everything is going perfect and beautiful. The devil made an attempt to strike during the first pregnancy lying to them that my aunt had a Fibrosis but God again put the devil to shame. First born almost 2 years old now and have never fell sick one day. She is indeed a living Testimony to me.<br />
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When God have told us Yes, the devil always find it ways to tell us No and if we let our faith wiggles we start to fall into his trap and begin thinking negative thought."For I know the thought I have towards you" says the Lord , and therefor He will never tell you Yes in vain. Once we get the Yes the question becomes are we willing to wait? How long are we waiting for? For my aunt it was 7 years for others it could be less and others it could be more, have you forgotten the case of Abraham and Sarah? <br />
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God promises special blessing for waiting and waiting still remains one of the difficult things of the Scripture. As human, we are so prone to take matters into our own hands, to follow our own schemes and therefore find it so hard to wait.<br />
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My prayers today is that God will always give each and everyone the courage and strength to wait on his promises.<br />
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<ul><li>Maybe you are in a job situation that’s really tough to endure and you are waiting and hoping that conditions will change for the better....WAIT! </li>
<li>Maybe you are without a job and waiting for news on an application....WAIT! </li>
<li>Maybe you are ill (or have a loved one who is) and waiting for your health to improve....WAIT!</li>
<li>Maybe you are a single person may be waiting for Mr. or Miss Right....WAIT! </li>
<li>Or maybe you are waiting for your child(ren)...WAIT</li>
</ul>No matter what it is you are waiting for always remember to keep yourself busy for "an idle mind is the devil's workshop." Find a new hobby or start working on advancement. Personally I finished my Undergrad. this past December and while I'm waiting for for my ceremony in may and for a job I decided to start my graduate program instead. I was at home for a month and the devil was doing his best to make me angry over the fact that I was jobless but keeping busy with school and God's work keep me focus, knowing that God is in the business of unwrapping an AMAZING job for me.<br />
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I shall stop here now so if you are waiting Get out there, get busy for yourself, God, friends and family and God will certainly answer to your situation.<br />
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Cheers!<br />
YSUMs. Yellow Sisi Unspokenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08882237190307123728noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3167654060440719475.post-78782419637630875392012-03-03T23:45:00.000-05:002012-03-03T23:45:59.417-05:00This is for you LadiesI should be studying now but I'm here doing a post. I just can't seem to stay focus today, I don't know what is going on and I really need to bang out this textbook. Its been 3 hours and I'm still on slide 10 of 200+ that I have to finish before Monday. I refuse to leave this place till 2am so book + laptop + empty lecture hall it is till I get something done.<br />
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Anyways so I today I wanted to share a quick post with you guys. I shall be doing a real blog post soon so stay tuned for more next week. In the meantime, I wanted to share a few lines one of my reader shared with me a while back. You know who you are. Its been a while since I heard from you, I pray that all is well with you and yours. Enjoy guys!<br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% white; color: blue; font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif; text-align: center;"><b>A Beautiful woman uses her lips for truth,</b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% white; color: blue; font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif; text-align: center;"><b><span style="right: auto;">Her voice for kindness,</span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% white; color: blue; font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif; text-align: center;"><b><span style="right: auto;">Her ears for compassion,</span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% white; color: blue; font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif; text-align: center;"><b><span style="right: auto;">Her hands for charity,</span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% white; color: blue; font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif; text-align: center;"><b><span style="right: auto;">Her heart for love,</span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% white; color: blue; font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif; text-align: center;"><b>For those that don't like her, she uses prayer.</b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% white; color: blue; font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif; text-align: center;"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% white; color: black; font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif; text-align: left;"><b>Check out <a href="http://nomose.bigcartel.com/">N'omose Couture</a>....I've been rocking the <a href="http://nomose.bigcartel.com/product/envelope-evening-clutch">Green Clutch</a> and absolutely fallen in love with it.</b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% white; color: black; font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% white; color: black; font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif; text-align: left;"><b>Shout out to aunty <a href="http://gbemisoke.blogspot.com/">Gbemi </a>who will be making my graduation dress soon, I'm super excited.</b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% white; color: black; font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif; text-align: left;"><b><br />
</b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% white; color: black; font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif; text-align: left;"><b>I feel like I'm falling in love with contemporary Christian music for the first time all over again.</b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% white; color: black; font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif; text-align: left;"><br />
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</div>Ms. Yellow Sisi Unspokenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08882237190307123728noreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3167654060440719475.post-48351172744292762892012-02-19T02:25:00.002-05:002012-02-19T21:53:57.166-05:00Stop Dating the Church - Part 4 Hello there lovely bloggers hope y'all have been good. So I'm finally here to finish the last part of the "Stop Dating the Church" series. In <a href="http://yellowsisiunspoken.blogspot.com/2011/12/how-about-you-stop-dating-church-part-1.html">part one</a> I talk about the Church and defined it very briefly. In <a href="http://yellowsisiunspoken.blogspot.com/2011/12/how-about-you-stop-dating-church-part-2.html">part two</a> I went on to identify the various Church daters/member. <a href="http://yellowsisiunspoken.blogspot.com/2012/01/how-about-you-stop-dating-church-part-3.html">Part 3</a> talks about the different characteristic to look for while choosing a church and drum rolls in part four I shall be talking about <b>what to do once you have found "The Church."</b><br />
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It does please my heart to see that a good number of bloggers and followers I know are Christian and are a member of a Church. For many of people I know including myself, waking up on a Sunday morning and going to church is as natural as breathing. Now the thing is not really about <b> </b>"going" to Church. Praise God for that but we can certainly maximize our church attendance to the glory of God. Now we can not experience a good church service if we are not prepared for it. Sunday morning should just be a regular morning like the rest because if we are looking to have an amazing encounter with God at that service then certainly it would take preparedness to do so.<br />
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When Joshual Harris uses the example that in most of his life he has probably woke up late, walked into Church groggy, listened occasionally, gotten distracted, left early and remember very little in several services, it hits me that many of us certainly do the same. Now if we are much more prepared for the service, the value and gain from the 2-3 hours service is so beneficial than any other day.<br />
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Many times we are distracted by the simple things happening in our lives or what is next on the to do list that we lose all focus when the service is on. Sometimes we get carried away by what person XYZ is wearing to church or how person XYZ is lifting his/her hands and singing halleluiah. Instead of focusing we let things so simple distract us still. <br />
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Here are a few tips for preparing for a great Sunday.<br />
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1. Start early on a Saturday night. The things we watch or hear plays a big role in our daily lives so to keep the heart pure for a great Sunday encounter stay away from certain movies or videos. Take for example a crazy Nigeria movie at 11pm on a Saturday night, it is no doubt that you will be replaying several scenes of the movie while the pastor in ministering the next morning. (I'm a victim of this one *hide in shame*). If you must watch something just think Phil 4:8<b> <span style="color: magenta;">" Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things."</span></b><br />
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2. <b>Put your outfit together overnight.</b> Ladies Ladies you probably know how it is getting dress in the morning. I am one of those female who have to try at least 5 outfit before knowing what to wear or stare in the closet for 10-15 minuets and conclude there is nothing to wear. Picking out my cloth over night have plays a major impact because once you are awake you already know what you are putting on and is ready to go.<br />
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3. <b>Prepare your heart</b>t - Taking the time out to spend some time in the word will definitely prepare and open up your heart to receive the words the next morning. <br />
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4. <b>Sleep and wake up early </b>- This one I can't stress enough. If there is one thing I remember from pre school it would be the song "early to bed early to rise..." Staying up till the early am on a day of service is certainly not the best. Chances are you might wake up late, get very tired in the morning and off course doze off in the church while the pastor is ministering.The earlier you wake up the more refresh, upbeat and ready to go you are. Once you are awake early, you would have enough time to quickly slot in a worship/praise song to keep your spirit well prepared or perhaps quickly read a psalms. Psalms 19 is a great one to go.<br />
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5. <b>Be careful how you hear</b>- This one is from Joseph Harris himself. " When God's Word is being preached, you are not merely receiving information about God. God Himself is addressing you through His Word." How we listen and apply the words we hear either honor or dishonor God so it is really important to be careful about it. One thing we should know is that with every Word that God speaks to us we are held accountable for them so if we did not pay attention to them He still holds us accountable. Even Jesus said it in Luke 18:18 <b><span style="color: magenta;">"Therefore consider carefully how you Listen"</span></b><br />
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6. <b>After the service APPLY</b> - As Christians we are called to not be just the hearers of the Word but also doers of them. With that get out there and practice or simply share what you have also learn. Celebrate the Sunday afternoon with a friend or family and enjoy the glory and blessings of God.<br />
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This conclude this series, I hope you all enjoyed it and took our one or two things. I really did love the feedbacks from <a href="http://yellowsisiunspoken.blogspot.com/2012/01/how-about-you-stop-dating-church-part-3.html">Part 3</a> and look forward to elaborating more on point number 7 of it since many of people were interested.<br />
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<b><span style="color: blue;">HAPPY SUNDAY</span></b>!<br />
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YSUMs. Yellow Sisi Unspokenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08882237190307123728noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3167654060440719475.post-68107235420449808992012-01-06T00:47:00.001-05:002012-01-06T00:48:22.913-05:00How about you stop dating the Church? Part 3<div style="text-align: left;"> <span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Hello dear lovely bloggers and readers <span style="color: red;"><b><span style="font-size: x-large;">HAPPY NEW YEAR!</span></b></span> phew its been since 2011 since I blogged lol. I pray the year have been coming along perfectly so far and I pray ever one of you would experience year 2012 in a way you have never experience any other year in all dimensions of your daily lives, Amen. I'd like to thank each and every one of you for keeping up with me all through last year, without you all I would have almost no reason to keep blogging. Thank you all for always sharing your thoughts and opinion</span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> So since it is a new year there are a few things I would like to share as you all begin to set your goals and desire accomplishment for the year. With that here are <b>7 questions to ask when choosing a church and even while still in your church.</b> These are 7 Reasons by Joshua Harris in the book why Church matters. I will only be elaborating on them and adding a little sugar and honey here and there.</span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">1. <b>Is this a church where God's Word is f</b><b>aithfully taught?</b></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">For sure the Church is not an anyhow form of gathering, the strongest part of any Church should be the Word of God.that is bean teach/preach. How much of the words is meal are you actually getting? Is the Pastor or minister just quoting a few verses as if he or she is just sprinkling salt and pepper? <b style="background-color: white;">2nd Timothy 3:16 tells us </b>"<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: magenta;"><b>All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness."</b></span> therefor we deserve to hear everything that God has to say to us via the pastors. </span></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="background-color: white;"><b><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">2. Is this a Church where sound doctrines matters?</span></b></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">This means a church that truely values what the scriptures says and practice it. Many people will say its not about the doctrine but Jesus. My answer to that is what are the doctrines exactly? are they Biblical or human because in this generation many try to twist it to fit their standards even<span style="color: magenta;"><b> 2nd Timothy 4:3-4 says so, "</b></span><span style="color: magenta;"><b><span style="background-color: white;">For the time will come when people will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear. </span><sup class="versenum" id="en-NIV-29875" style="background-color: white; vertical-align: text-top;">4</sup><span style="background-color: white;"> They will turn their ears away from the truth and turn aside to myths"</span></b></span></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: magenta; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b><span style="background-color: white;"><br />
</span></b></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><b><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">3. Is this a church committed to reaching non-Christians with the gospel?</span></b></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Every believer is called to reach out to the world and share the Gospel so this is a very important key. As a body of Christ we not only care for the internal but also the External. Billions of people on Planet Earth today have never of Christ and it is our duty to reach out to them.</span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><b><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">4. Is this a Church whose leaders are characterize by humanity and integrity?</span></b></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Know your leaders and know them well. The only way to see is by the revelations that God's shows us through His words. There are prophets and prophets. If the leadership preaches one thing in the church and does another outside you have a right to questions and ask God to show you the truth. The whole of 1st Timothy 3 gives the qualities of all church leaderships. <span style="color: magenta;"><b>"</b></span><span style="color: magenta;"><b><span style="background-color: white;"> Here is a trustworthy saying: Whoever aspires to be an overseer desires a noble task. </span><sup class="versenum" id="en-NIV-29734" style="background-color: white; vertical-align: text-top;">2</sup><span style="background-color: white;"> Now the overseer is to be above reproach, faithful to his wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, </span><sup class="versenum" id="en-NIV-29735" style="background-color: white; vertical-align: text-top;">3</sup><span style="background-color: white;"> not given to drunkenness, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. </span><sup class="versenum" id="en-NIV-29736" style="background-color: white; vertical-align: text-top;">4</sup><span style="background-color: white;"> He must manage his own family well and see that his children obey him, and he must do so in a manner worthy of full</span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 5px;">..."</span></b></span></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: magenta; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 5px;"><br />
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</span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><b><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">5. Is this a Church where the people strive to live by the Word?</span></b></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">A Church should not be a Sunday morning activity where you put on the holy hat and take it out once the grace is over. It is very important to see if the people live by the word because it would be very difficult to grow in a place where people hear one thing and does the other.</span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><b><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">6. Is this a Church where members are challenged to serve?</span></b></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Bench warming should not be an option with any Christian. There is always a service or something that need to be done in the house of the Lord. Many people only think of Ushers, Choirs, Hospitality when they think of services. There are thousand of other areas you can serve going from committing to give someone a ride to church on Sunday mornings, cleaning the sanctuary, helping set up equipment, projecting songs and many others. <span style="color: magenta;"><b>Ephesians 4:12 "t</b></span><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: magenta; font-weight: bold;">o equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up." </span>This is yet another example of the rule of a pastor/leaders to encourage it members to serve in the ministry</span></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="background-color: white;"><b><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">7. Is the Church willing to kick you out?</span></b></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">This one is my favorite one so I had to save the best for last. If a member of the Church is falling it is the Church responsibility to call the individual and talk about their sin for them to repent and if they decide not to the church can removed the person's membership and begin to treat him as they would to the unbelievers in hope that the individual will repent and come back to the Lord. Now I know that was probably difficult to take in but it is merely an act of church discipline as instituted by Jesus. <span style="color: magenta;"><b>Matthew 18: 15-17</b></span><b><span style="color: magenta;"><span style="background-color: white; text-align: -webkit-auto;"> </span><span class="woj" style="background-color: white; text-align: -webkit-auto;"><sup class="versenum" id="en-NIV-23743" style="vertical-align: text-top;">15</sup> “If your brother or sister<sup class="footnote" style="line-height: 0.5em; vertical-align: text-top;" value="[<a href="#fen-NIV-23743b" title="See footnote b">b</a>]">[<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew%2018&version=NIV#fen-NIV-23743b" style="text-decoration: none;" title="See footnote b">b</a>]</sup> sins,<sup class="footnote" style="line-height: 0.5em; vertical-align: text-top;" value="[<a href="#fen-NIV-23743c" title="See footnote c">c</a>]">[<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew%2018&version=NIV#fen-NIV-23743c" style="text-decoration: none;" title="See footnote c">c</a>]</sup> go and point out their fault, just between the two of you. If they listen to you, you have won them over.</span><span style="background-color: white; text-align: -webkit-auto;"> </span><span class="woj" style="background-color: white; text-align: -webkit-auto;"><sup class="versenum" id="en-NIV-23744" style="vertical-align: text-top;">16</sup> But if they will not listen, take one or two others along, so that ‘every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.’<sup class="footnote" style="line-height: 0.5em; vertical-align: text-top;" value="[<a href="#fen-NIV-23744d" title="See footnote d">d</a>]">[<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew%2018&version=NIV#fen-NIV-23744d" style="text-decoration: none;" title="See footnote d">d</a>]</sup></span><span style="background-color: white; text-align: -webkit-auto;"> </span><span class="woj" style="background-color: white; text-align: -webkit-auto;"><sup class="versenum" id="en-NIV-23745" style="vertical-align: text-top;">17</sup> If they still refuse to listen, tell it to the church; and if they refuse to listen even to the church, treat them as you would a pagan or a tax collector.</span></span></b></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Discipline is a way to try to restore a sinning brother as well as a way to protect the witness of the church. A mother does not discipline a child because she hates him or her but rather because she loves the child and when the best for him or her. </span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> When you have found these things know that you are in the right Church. <span style="text-align: left;">Now very Often God place us in a place where in the Natural sense it might be unusual or weird. I have personally had an encounter with that at my school where there were a number of various campus fellowship/bible group. I found myself at one of the Campus ministries that was predominantly Caucasian. It was a different experience for me coming from that heavy praise and worship type of church to a contemporary style of worship. At the time I had a choice to leave and join the other campus ministry where I would be much more comfortable but for some reason I just kept going back because God had his own perfect agenda for me and over the years it had been a blessings. </span></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">No matter where and what Church God have place you today do not be hesitant to stay if God says this is the Church for you. No matter how uncomfortable you may feel at first I assure you it would be a much greater reward in the near future.</span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
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</span></div>Ms. Yellow Sisi Unspokenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08882237190307123728noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3167654060440719475.post-10070934062855887102011-12-26T02:32:00.001-05:002011-12-26T02:37:42.170-05:00How about you stop dating the Church? Part 2Hello bloggers hope you all had an amazing Christmas celebrations. I apologize for the long wait in between this series but here we go with part 2 of church...Enjoy and be bless.<br />
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</div><div>Praise God Christmas this year fell on a Sunday. To me every Sunday is pretty much exciting because I always know I am going in for something. As a person who tend to be overly attentive to details around me I was expecting the church to be overfilled today since it was a Christmas Sunday morning and was a little disappointed when I found myself running late. I was piss that the church was going to be packed with church daters, you know the ones who attend services at most 3/4 times a year meaning Easter, Christmas, Thanksgiving and New year service. Its amazing how many people fall in that categories in this era.</div><div><br />
</div><div>I had a friend, lets call her Jane. Jane and I have been friend for a very long time and for the last year she has been attending two churches. One in the morning and another in the afternoon. She love church one because of the people although she does not understand the language they spoke. Church two she also love because in there she can actually understand the sermon and see areas in which she can apply them. This is what we call church dating because ms. Jane was not committed to any particular local church. Today there are many Jane roaming about and the most common excuse I hear is "Oh I love their praise sessions but the sermons are so dry so I go to Church #2 when I really want to hear a good sermon." According to Joshua Harris, it is very easy to spot church daters in three manner.</div><div><br />
</div><div><b>1. </b> The individual's attitude toward the church is <b>me-centered</b>. What can I gain/get from this church? I'm a really broke college student and have no money to pay for school, can the church pay for me? I really need this miracle/deliverance do they have that there? What activities/social events do they have? Everything about this individual's motive is what will I really get out of my waking up on a lovely Sunday morning when I could be sleeping indoor like others. </div><div><br />
</div><div><b>2. </b>This individual is very <b>Independent</b>. You know the "I'm riding solo ones." They come to church because they probably grew up doing the same every Sunday and it has become a ritual. Going to church on Sunday morning becomes one of the things that Christians are "suppose" to do and so the individual just flow with the motion. They are the last set to come in just right when the praise session is over and first set to leave before the Pastor makes the alter call. They do not want anything to do with been committed to the church or being a part of the church service unit. connecting to people/members of the church is definitely a NO NO after all "I don't need people checking up on everything that I do."</div><div><br />
</div><div><b>3. </b> This individual is <b>Critical</b>. This individual basically comes in with the mindset that their must be fault in the church. They are very quick to find fault in a Church and will not be satisfy until they find something wrong with the church. You know the mentality of this is too good to be true so I'm not getting out of this until I find what is wrong. They are always on the look out for the next church and they sit not too far from the exit door at all.</div><div><br />
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</div><div>I am sure you have met at least one of this individual before. If this might be you I beg of you that you reconsidered your decisions before going to church next time. If you do not fall in this categories of "Church daters" Praise God for that, and I would suppose my next question for you would be how committed are you to your local church?<br />
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<b>what is a local church?</b> While I was thinking about this thought and the right definition to use I came across Mark Driscoll's definition where he said "<span style="background-color: #e7e6e2; color: #141310; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', Times, serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: italic; line-height: 22px; text-align: left;">The local church is a community of regenerated believers who confess Jesus Christ as Lord. In obedience to Scripture they organize under qualified leadership, gather regularly for preaching and worship, observe the biblical sacraments of baptism and communion, are unified by the Spirit, are disciplined for holiness, and scatter to fulfill the great commandment and the great commission as missionaries to the world for God’s glory and their joy."</span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #141310; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;"><span style="font-size: 15px; line-height: 22px;">Now there is the local church and the universal church which is the entire body of Christ all over the world. The local church is within our community and it is definitely important to Identify </span><b style="font-size: 15px; line-height: 22px;">your local church and be committed to it.</b><span style="font-size: 15px; line-height: 22px;"></span></span><br />
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</span></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #141310; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;"><span style="font-size: 15px; line-height: 22px;">Now let's do a little rewind back to church dating. The first time I heard about Church dating I was almost confuse because I thought I was in that situation. When I was in school I was as committed to my church as well as my campus ministry, bible study group and prayer group. At the time I thought was I church dating? This brings me back to the categories of people who claim not to go to church because they are part of other group like campus ministry/prayer groups. Certainly there are different protocols in a Church than the other group. A Church is much more than your campus ministries, It is more than a group of Christians coming together for words of encouragement, it is more than listening to preachings online or </span>tv<span style="font-size: 15px; line-height: 22px;">, it is much more than praying/studying the bible with a couple of people over a conference call. Yes you find fellowship in those gatherings but none of those groups can substitute for that local church. </span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #141310; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;"><span style="font-size: 15px; line-height: 22px;">This post have grown quite long so I shall rest my fingers here for now, however check back soon to find out How to choose/what to look for in a local church.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #141310; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;"><span style="font-size: 15px; line-height: 22px;">Do have a lovely week guys and Happy New Year in advance</span></span><br />
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</span></span></div>Ms. Yellow Sisi Unspokenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08882237190307123728noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3167654060440719475.post-89638761010824584832011-12-14T22:28:00.003-05:002011-12-26T00:20:33.519-05:00How about you stop dating the Church? Part 1<blockquote class="tr_bq">Jack and Grace met through a mutual friend. From day one they seemed to be the perfect match. Grace was everything Jack had always wanted. She was beautiful, outgoing, and caring - always there when Jack needed her. For the first five months they were inseparable. Jack could hardly think of anything but grace. He didn't want to look further, he told friends. "She's the one."<br />
Now almost three years have passed. Jack still enjoys the comfort and familiarity of being with grace, but the spark is gone. Grace's Flaws seem more obvious. He's not sure he finds her as attractive as he once did. And he's beginning to resent all the time she want to spend with him.<br />
One night, when she asks if they can define the nature of their relationship, Jack blows up "We're together, aren't we?" he asks angrily. " Why isn't that enough for you?" Obviously, Jack isn't ready for commitment. And it's unclear if he ever will be...<b>"</b><br />
</blockquote><blockquote class="tr_bq">The excerpt above is from Joshua Harris book "Why Church Matters" </blockquote> Have you ever been in a relationship like that of Grace and Jack? Its breaks my heart to say that there are millions upon millions of Jacks all around the word. And no Grace is not a girl she is the <b>Church</b>. Many people today can accept and say that they are "believers" but how many people can we really classify as "bellongers"?<br />
Paul in Ephisians 3:10 makes us understand that the church was an Intention of God. "His intent was that now, through the church, the manifold wisdom of God should be made known to the rulers and authorities in the heavenly realms." <b> </b><br />
<b>What exactly is the Church? </b>we may ask. So many times we think of the building when we hear the word church and forget what it really mean. To me the Church is a fellowship where men and women of all background can come together as one body and worship God. It is a body of Christ that grow day after day. For example if you were to cut off one leg off your body today will it function on it own? The answer is No and this is the same for the Church/the body of Christ. Once one member of the Church break away it is very hard for it to function alone because we do need that fellowship with one another. An iron sharpens and iron and if as much as salvation is an individual pursuit we still need one another to make the journey smooth.<br />
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So to the ones who think/say "Oh I don't need to belong to any church I can worship God and pray on my own and at my house" I'm sorry to break it to you "No you CAN'T and it is NOT OK." It is hard to do most things alone and certainly Christianity is not an exception. "God manifest His presence in different ways to the "living stones" of His temple when they are gathered than He does to them when they are apart" - Joshua Harris<br />
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When we are members of the church according to Ephesian 2:19-22 " you are no longer foreigners and strangers, but fellow citizens with God’s people and also members of his household, <sup class="versenum" id="en-NIV-29250">20</sup> built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, with Christ Jesus himself as the chief cornerstone. <sup class="versenum" id="en-NIV-29251">21</sup> In him the whole building is joined together and rises to become a holy temple in the Lord. <sup class="versenum" id="en-NIV-29252">22</sup> And in him you too are being built together to become a dwelling in which God lives by his Spirit."<br />
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This is the beginning of the Church series that I shall be writing on in the next few post. Now this post post took me a little longer than I normally would take to write a post simply because this is a topic that is very dear to my heart and I can get very brutally emotional about it. I don't know if you can tell in some sentences but I had to rewrite every sentence a few times because I thought "oh snap that was too harsh and mean." My point is these next few post might sound harsh because I will no longer edit it to please my readers but rather say it as raw as it is because I believe Christ would love us to all share even the bitter truth as bitter as it is. I pray that you all bear with me in these post. In the mean time check back for part 2 which shall be "Connecting to a Local Church."<br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><b><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="color: blue;">"If you refuse to take on spiritual responsibility you will becomes a liability"</span></span></b></div>Ms. Yellow Sisi Unspokenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08882237190307123728noreply@blogger.com14